Lifestyle filters
- Sleep schedule filter — early bird, night owl, in-between
- Smoking filters — cigarettes, weed, vaping (separate toggles)
- Pet preferences — your pets, their pets, both, neither
- Going-out habits and weekend rhythm
- Cleanliness style without making it a personality test
- Work-from-home frequency for daytime household balance
- Guest patterns and overnight visitor norms
- Hard filters for non-negotiables, soft weights for everything else
- No quantified compatibility scores — just relevant signals
- Editable at any time as your priorities change
Lifestyle filters
Most roommate situations don't fail because two people fundamentally hate each other. They fail because of sleep schedules. Or a cat someone didn't mention. Or how loud the kitchen gets at 11 PM. The small stuff that adds up.
Lifestyle filters surface that small stuff before the first conversation. Be honest about your rhythm — when you sleep, how often you cook, whether you smoke, whether you have a pet — and we'll show you people whose rhythm lines up.
What you can filter on
- Sleep schedule (early bird, night owl, somewhere in between)
- Smoking (cigarettes, weed, vaping — separate toggles)
- Pets (yours, theirs, both, neither)
- Going-out habits (weekends only, often, rarely)
- Cleanliness style (spotless, tidy enough, "we have a system")
- Work-from-home frequency
- Guest patterns and overnight visitor expectations
How to use them
Set your non-negotiables first — the things you actually can't live with. Then add preferences for everything else. We filter strictly on the non-negotiables and softly weight the preferences. You'll see people who fit your hard rules, ranked by how well they match your softer ones.
Why it matters
The point isn't to find someone identical to you — it's to find someone whose daily rhythm doesn't clash with yours. Two early-risers don't need the same coffee order; they just need to not wake each other up. Lifestyle filters surface that.
